Saturday, September 18

Deal negativity (read this somewhere)


A tip on how to handle negativity is to ignore it. If someone is being negative don't respond or even acknowledge that something negative has been said. If you must make a comment make sure that it is one that is positive. If you continue to run into the same person always being negative try confronting them. Sometimes when you confront people it will make them take a step back and actually realize how they are always being negative. This might help them to try harder to be less negative and more positive.

Another tip on how to handle negativity is to try to be more positive in you. Maybe you don't recognize that you are negative. One way to handle negativity is by making sure that if you do say something negative that you think of a couple things that are positive about the same situation. This will help you to start thinking more positive things and less negative things.

Sometimes we get so carried away by other people's problems and setbacks that we neglect our own (read this somewhere)

Keeping the focus on myself helps me live my life and that is the only thing I have control over, no one elses.

Tuesday, September 14

Laughter (read this somewhere)

Angels fly because they take themselves lightly. (G.K. Chesterton)

Let go... (read this somewhere)

"Letting Go"
* To "let go" does not mean to stop caring; it means I can't do it for someone else.
* To "let go" is not to cut myself off; it's the realization I can't control another.
* To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
* To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
* To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another; it's to make the most of myself.
* To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.
* To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.
* To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
* To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
* To "let go" is not to be protective; it's to permit another to face reality.
* To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.
* To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
* To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
* To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
* To "let go" is to not regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
* To "let go" is to fear less and love myself more.

Sunday, September 12

Want to...

Somehow not being able to go for walking in recent past....
Guess I have to change the timing or something..... probably morning....
I want to walk....