You are allowed to outgrow, and evolve people from your past, even the kindest, nicest, most supportive people. If the energy no longer feels aligned, you are not obligated to give other people access to you, and your life, for any longer than you feel comfortable doing so.
Decentering friends is all about removing the codependence, and emotional reliance on people, that no longer serve this current, brand new, upgraded version of you.
It's about taking up space, and being authentically you, even if it doesn't fit in the box that other people have kept you in, in their minds, even if it makes them question if you are who they thought you once were, even if it means outgrowing the version of you that they grew to love, and stepping out of that space.
People who require you to overexplain yourself, were never really your people in the first place.
Centering Yourself and Becoming Self-Obsessed
1. Trusting in yourself above others.
It's about elevating your energy, and trusting in yourself above others.
Every single day starts with, "How do I want to feel today? What kind of day do I want to create for myself? What do I think? What do I want?"
2. Health is the bare minimum.
3. Reject trends, & other people's ideas of what a good time actually means.
Solo dating, quality time, and self-discovery helps you avoid all of that waste of time.
Everything in your life moves in Divine timing.
4. Managing your Energy.
Whether there are arguments in the room, or chaos, you are not absorbing any of that, because your energy, and your intentions, are not an energetic match for it.
Create your own standards, whether it be an app, a situation, a job, or the room you walk into.
5. Decentering your Past.
Stop focusing on the negatives.
Start thinking: How good can it get for me?
What is she doing? How can I get there? What does my future look like? How can I make it better than I've ever imagined?
You just have to step into her energy.
Homework
#1 The DailyQuestions
How would the most ideal version of myself act today?
How do I want to center myself today, or be the most self-obsessed version of myself today?
What kind of day, or week do I want to create for myself, right now?
How do I want to ensure I'm feeling at the end of the day?
What is the outcome I want from the event I'm attending?
#2 Decenter your phone
#3 Create a weekly ceremony of self-love
