Wednesday, July 29

Monsoon Fruits

Ate a really sweet 'chausa' mango today :)
Ate a sweet n soft pear in the evening.

Monday, July 27

Rest in Peace Dr. Kalam

Today Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam passed away.
He was a rocket scientist, former President of our country and an inspiring person.
He was in IIM Shillong when he suffered a cardiac arrest.
May God bless his soul.

Terror Attack

Today morning there was a terrorist attack in Gurdaspur, Punjab.
May God bless the departed souls and give strength n peace to the families affected.
May God bless the bus driver whose alertness n bravery saved many lives and the villagers who helped in averting a major disaster.
May God guide & bless the people of our nation & our world.

Thursday, July 23

Its only when...

“It’s only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth – and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up, we will then begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had.” –Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Kitchen n House cloths

Kitchen:
1. Cleaning Slab, cooking range, fridge, microwave, kitchen drawers. (+1)
2. Cleaning kitchen almiras (dry cloth, colin)
3. Cleaning dining table
4. Holding hot utensil
5. Keeping chakla (+1)

House:
1. Dusting my room.
2. Dusting outside room. (+1)
3. Wiping (wet cloth, black socks)
4. Cleaning temple shelf.

Tuesday, July 21

Being Assertive (how to be assertive)

http://www.moodjuice.scot.nhs.uk/assertiveness.asp

http://psychcentral.com/lib/5-tips-to-increase-your-assertiveness/2/

http://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/bhcv2/bhcarticles.nsf/pages/ten_tips_for_being_assertive?Open
1. Make the decision to positively assert yourself. Commit to being assertive rather than passive or aggressive and start practising today.
2. Aim for open and honest communication. Remember to respect other people when you are sharing your feelings, wants, needs, beliefs or opinions.
3. Listen actively. Try to understand the other person’s point of view and don’t interrupt when they are explaining it to you.
4. Agree to disagree. Remember that having a different point of view doesn’t mean you are right and the other person is wrong.
5. Avoid guilt trips. Be honest and tell others how you feel or what you want without making accusations or making them feel guilty.
6. Stay calm. Breathe normally, look the person in the eye, keep your face relaxed and speak in a normal voice.
7. Take a problem-solving approach to conflict. Try to see the other person as your friend not your enemy.
8. Practise assertiveness. Talk in an assertive way in front of a mirror or with a friend. Pay attention to your body language as well as to the words you say.
9. Use ‘I’. Stick with statements that include ‘I’ in them such as ‘I think’ or ‘I feel’. Don’t use aggressive language such as ‘you always’ or ‘you never’.
10. Be patient. Being assertive is a skill that needs practice. Remember that you will sometimes do better at it than at other times, but you can always learn from your mistakes.

Saturday, July 18

Weekend of 18th, 19th July

On 18th Sat,
- Woke up late. Had gone to Dwarka yesterday.

On 19th Sun,
- My in-laws came back from Dwarka.

In-laws

Ammaji, Ma, Papa are here for Munmun Bhaiya's birthday.
(Husband & me gifted him a wallet.)

Tuesday, July 14

Personal Rhythms

Dreams

5 Limiting Beliefs That Sabotage Your Dreams:

Belief 1: It’s too difficult.
Belief 2: I have to become successful quickly.
Belief 3: Either I’m famous or I’m a failure.
You might never become a New York Times Best Seller or the CEO of a Fortune 500 company. Does that mean that any achievements short of those goals is a waste of your time?
Belief 4: It’s too late for me.
Belief 5: It’s too risky. I might fail.
You are right; you might fail. But here’s what you must ask yourself: Are you completely happy with your life right now? In your twilight years, when you look back, will you regret not trying hard enough?

Full article: http://tinybuddha.com/blog/5-limiting-beliefs-that-sabotage-your-dreams/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+tinybuddha+%28tinybuddha%29

Sunday, July 12

Weekend of 11th, 12th July

On Sat,
- Saw movie on TV 'Khoobsoorat'.

On Sun,
- Went out to buy a medicine.
- Bought Bhutta on drive back, ate at home.

Health Goal

Goal:
Sleep Cycle: 11 pm to 7 am
Sleep by 10:45 pm

Monsoon

Monsoon in full flow...

Sunday, July 5

Weekend of 4th, 5th July

On 4th Sat,
- Did Laundry.
- *Went to Lal path lab for nail test.*
- Went to GIP for grocery n laundry basket.
- Hubby made pasta for dinner. Helped him.
- Folded clothes.
- Spoke to Ma.
- Had pain in legs n back.

On 5th Sun,
- Folded more clothes.
- Cut, filed nails.
- Wrote expenses.
- Hubby went for photography.

Summer : Mango

Ate a dussehri mango today :)

Friday, July 3

Trying to fit everything in a single day

If the 'Everyday clause' is not working, try the 'alternate day clause'.
for eg. if u have only one free hour everyday and u want to study also & go out n do some activity also. if u have tried the 'everyday clause' & failed u can try the 'alternate day clause' n see.

Thursday, July 2

Saavan 2015

Saavan will start from 1st August, Saturday.
Saavan Somvaar: 3rd, 10th, 17th, 24th August.

Festivals in Saavan:
Saavan Shivratri: 12th August (Chaturdashi / Krishna Paksha)
Hariyaali Amavasya: 14th August
Hariyaali Teej: 17th August (Shukla Paksha / Second half of the month)
Rakshabandhan: 29th August (Saavan Poornima, last day of saavan)

In Hindu calendar Shravan month is dedicated to Lord Shiva. Whole month is considered auspicious to seek blessing of Lord Shiva.

Late Summer: Peach

Ate 2 sweet peaches yesterday evening :)

If this isn't nice, I don't know what is.