I knew I was making bad decisions for my business, but I was making the right ones for me.
I think it is really easy to get those things confused.
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I will take comfort in knowing that I am doing the best I can at this time, and making the best decisions I can at this time.
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I hope you are open to your own growth.
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I don't know what the future holds, but I do know I am going to meet it with gentleness towards myself, and I'm going to have Faith that I will be able to figure things out as I go.
When you are a type that values Ne highly in your cognitive stacking: What your brain naturally wants to do is learn as much as it can possibly learn through having different experiences, through exploring different philosophies, through understanding the world using many different lenses, and this is the absolute food that you need to be giving your soul in order to thrive.
If there is a single piece of advice I would give to an ENFP, it’s that, you have to put your energy at the centre of your life. Prioritise feeding your body, mind and soul. For you wellness means having new adventures, having new experiences, etc. allowing yourself to make seemingly impractical choices in so far as you are able to do so. Your energy is oriented towards that exploration of life. That is what makes you feel alive, it's what makes you feel invogorated, it's what makes you feel curious, and invested in the world.
If you prioritise your energy above all else, in the long run, that will pay off for you infinitely more than if you are to follow a traditional path that drains you.
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Extroverted Intuition (Ne) is able to absorb an almost terrifying amount of information and make sense of it, and connect it to tangible external reality in a way that other people understand. And that is a superpower that probably nobody has taught you how to nurture.
Feed yourself, new ideas, new experiences, and new thoughts, on a more or less constant basis.
Make staying engaged, energised, and interested in your life as the number one priority.
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Your superpower is your ability to take in a wide array of very complex information and make sense of it simply. Not many people are able to grasp complex theories as quickly and as easily as you are.
You need time to integrate everything that you have been learning.
None of that would have been possible if I had not taken a giant break, and put regaining my energy, and my connection to myself, at the absolute centre of my life, even at a time when it was impractical to do so.
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As an ENFP, when you are firing on all cylinders, you are producing insights, and thoughts, and perspectives that are far above what the average person can produce.
When you are leaning fully and completely into your explorative (Ne) and introspective nature (Fi), you are able to produce thought work at an extremely high level.
But in order to do that you have to be willing to feed your mind, and soul first.
Prioritise your energy as the person you actually are.
If you are able to show up for yourself in that way, that ends up being what you are able to offer the world, at a time when the world needs it pretty badly.
If you cannot prioritise you for yourself, consider prioritising yourself for the good of the planet.
Manifestation is not just about what you’re doing, it’s about who you are being.
Who you are showing up as everyday.
How do you be in the energy to attract what you want, in energetic alignment?
1. You want to be around other people or situations where having that thing is natural. It’s just their state of being. Get yourself somehow where you can be in that energy. Your state of being is highly correlated with what feels natural to you. Being near people or with people where that energy is natural. You will pick up on that energy.
2. Do the inner work. Remember that your world is a mirror.
Your thoughts and beliefs are the biggest thing holding you back, or the biggest thing propelling you forward. Shifting this can take some time. Some tools for changing your state of being include things like: Visualisation, journaling, scripting, affirmations, gratitude. Do it everyday. Just keep going. It’s a journey. Feminine energy is the being energy. Master the being energy, and you will start attracting things into your life, and the action that you do take will be amplified by a hundred.
3. Get in touch with your feelings.
Bring those feelings, those emotions up.
The way feel around your manifestations matters.
You have to use that feeling side to your advantage.
Connecting to your Feeling side. The Heart energy. I visualize how those manifestations would make me feel. I like to feel that feeling deep in my bones. Like what would my energy be like? Feel what it’s like to have it. How would it fell in ur body, mind, heart, and soul. Your feelings massively shift your energy. They are powerful. Manifesting using your feminine energy is all about attracting in what you want by being an energetic match, by being in the right energy.
4. Detachment.
Embrace detachment.
Feminine energy is the surrender energy. It's the energy of releasing control and letting go.
We have to do this with our manifestations too.
We have to give things space to come to us and to come into our lives, and release that resistance.
These is an element of trust and release that you have to embody.
Let go of the fear and worry around it. Feminine energy is the playful energy.
Try to be as light-hearted, n playful, n trusting as you can. Surrender. Release. Let go of control. This allows us to be more open in the way we receive them, so we don’t miss them. Trust the process. Be able to trust, and release, and detach from your manifestations. You have to remind yourself that what you want, wants you. What you want is meant for you. What you want, you want for a reason. It’s not random, and your soul knows this.
5. Be open to receiving that manifestation. You need to get comfortable receiving good things in your life. Feminine energy is the receiving energy.
In order to receive, we have to be able to surrender. We also have to know that, we are worthy of that receiving.
You truly have to feel comfortable. Feel natural in that receiving. To get what you want, you have to be able to receive it. You have to be able to allow it into your life. You have to let those walls down.
To wrap this all up, for you to be able to manifest to the fullest capacity with the most ease, your feminine and masculine energies have to come together. It takes energetic alignment (feminine energy), and action (masculine energy).
But that energetic alignment piece is what creates that ease, that flow, and allows you to stay in that softer energy will still getting what you want.
Here is the problem. We live in a highly masculinised world, where the masculine is praised… feminine qualities are not as praised. intuition, creativity, love.
The feminine energy is naturally within all of us, and it will always be there. You just have to find it, and activate it.
How to activate your feminine energy?
1. Move your body. The feminine all about Movement and Flow. Dancing. You don’t have to be good. To just kind of get energy flowing throughout your body, help you be more present in your body, and more connected to your body. You can also stretch, do yoga, go for a long walk outside.
2. Spend more time in nature. Soak up all the feminine energy that Mother earth has to offer. Mother Earth creates life, and grows life.
3. Get comfortable receiving. We allow others to help and lift us too. Let it happen, embrace it, and enjoy it.
4. Focus on love and softness. Stay focused on love instead of lower vibration feelings like anger and resentment.
5. Spend less time on social media. It can create a lot of comparison, and feeling like you’re not good enough. Unfollow or mute anyone who doesn’t make you feel good because it can really affect your energy and your confidence.
6. You, and your real life. Don’t get stuck in this online world living other people’s lives.
7. Stop trying to control everything. You have to learn to trust, and surrender, and sometimes go with the flow. The Universe is working for you, but sometimes not in the way you expect. Stop trying to control, and instead inspire them with your love, and focus on living your best life.
8. Take pride in your appearance. Feeling proud and confident of yourself. You stand taller. Enjoy the process of getting ready every morning.
9. Stand strong in your values, beliefs, and boundaries. Be confident in who you are, and what you stand for. Have clear and firm boundaries with yourself, and others.
10. Not being afraid of being vulnerable. Expressing your true emotions. It’s ok to express them. Start with simple “I feel” statements.
11. Embrace your natural playfulness. Bring out a little of that inner child in you and do things you enjoy just for the fun of it.
